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9. What to Do When You Fall Off the Wagon
It’s a humbling feeling. One day, you have it all together: your 7am yoga routine, your perfectly calibrated to-do list, your soundness of mind and body. And then something happens. Not anything serious like a freak tornado or assassination attempt, but something smaller, like a trip or a few days out with COVID-19. This seemingly…
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8. How to Get Away With a Murder Mystery
“I just need a good way to kill someone,” I said, sitting in our friendly neighborhood Starbucks. My sister looked around and confirmed that everyone was too distracted with their phones and laptops to take notice. It’s always been a dream of mine to write a mystery novel. I was telling her about how my…
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7. Unsolicited Writing Advice
I’m a big fan of Scott Adams’s essay “The Day You Became A Better Writer”. It helped make my writing clearer. I think most people, at least those who write in English, would benefit from reading it. In all my years of peer-editing, I recognize that most people could improve their essay-writing skills considerably if…
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6. How to Be Sick
Not really how to be sick, because everyone knows we don’t need any extra help contracting an illness during the fourth (fifth?) wave of a global pandemic. Rather, this post is more on how to be when sick. After two years of remaining covid-free during the pandemic, my body finally decided to capitulate to the…
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4. Machine Un-Learning
Non-sociopathic humans have gut feelings of right & wrong. Instinct is part of the human experience, even if it compels individuals to act in different ways. Sometimes we just know that something is wrong, but we can’t articulate why. There’s nothing inherently wrong with this. It becomes a problem when we think we can build…
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2. How to Be Yourself Around Others
This past Friday, we celebrated a birthday with pizzas and a fire pit. I met many new friends around the crackling embers that night. It turns out we were all in similar life boats after our social lives hit the COVID-19 iceberg. Many of us had similar stories of college-fueled extraversion turned to quarantine-necessitated introversion.…
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1. The Dangers of a Life Unscripted
I recently finished Mindless Eating by Brian Wansink. It’s a great book that explores the psychology of what, how, and why we eat. While I was reading this book, I was listening to Cal Newport’s most recent interview with Tim Ferriss. I couldn’t help but notice a parallel in these two seemingly disparate sources—and it’s…
